Was there any question of what I would write about for the letter K?
Kade. Today I’ll write about his name. To quote the movie Forrest Gump, “The most beautiful name in the whole wide world.”
I learned that some bereaved moms, to hear their child’s name, tell their barista the name of their child. That way when their drink is ready they can hear the music of his or her name called. I haven’t tried that yet, but I think I might to see how it goes…
But seriously…Kade is the best name ever. It’s short, monosyllabic, unique (especially in 1993), and strong. It’s my favorite name.
We found it in a baby name book. We narrowed it down to Kade and Calvin for a boy. Kade’s dad had a huge Calvin and Hobbes collection—as did Kade later. Because we (Jenny and Jon) both grew up with common names, we wanted an uncommon one for our baby. And because our last name was Riefenberg we wanted short and sweet.
EXCEPT if he would have been a girl. The girl names we picked out were Savannah and Sierra. I couldn’t resist those ultra-feminine, romantic-sounding names, even if Savannah Riefenberg would have been a doozy to write.
We decided on Kade on the way to the hospital. I was in labor and the conversation went something like this:
Me: Do we have the guts to go with that one we like, “Kade?;” that Gaelic one that means Of the wetlands? Or is “Kade” too weird?
Jon: Yeah, let’s go with it. It’s different but let’s do it.
His middle name took us a couple more days to decide. When Jon’s mom was trying name combinations out loud in the hospital, we liked the sound of Kade with her maiden name.
Kade Tyson it was.
I know of two people named after Kade. Both girls.
A girlfriend of mine whose daughter was Kade’s first little best friend, loved the name Kade (and loved the boy Kade). She said if she had a boy she would name him Kade. Well, five girls later…she named a daughter Kadie. That’s counts, right?
And just a few weeks ago, Kade’s friend, Tyler, and his girlfriend named their baby Olivia Kadence. Choosing a name is so precious and personal. I love that they honored Tyler’s buddy gone too soon in this way.
I do hope that there are more odes to Kade, that remember him and carry on his lively spirit.
Plus of course…it is the most beautiful name in the whole wide world.
6 thoughts on “blogging a – z – “k””
I LOVE your son’s name. Having grown up in Ireland, it sounds more masculine to me than anything else. What beautiful story of how you named him.
All so far, A-K have been great, this one is particularly touching and beautifully written. You are blessed.
I love reading your tributes to your son, Kade.
Hugs to you.
What a moving post about your son and how his name came to be. My son was named after my husband’s best friend, who passed away at 25…too soon. It was an honor to use his name. It’s nice to know that you feel honored that others have used your son’s name…it really is a beautiful way to remember someone.
Visiting from A to Z…
Hi Jenny, Just wanted to drop you a quick note and let you know I’ve been enjoying your a-z blogs. It’s nice to get to know Kade better. I’m glad you wrote about how you named him – I really love his name too!! It’s awesome that he has namesakes. I hope that spring is coming your way. I am ready for better weather. Take care, Dawn
Yes, it is the most beautiful name (I love Jenny and Andy too, common as they are). I forgot about the Gaelic origin of Kade. But I always thought it was a strong, steady, Western sounding name. There was a movie almost before my time called Shane. I think I linked the names. Kade would be someone riding on a horse up in the mountains. I like the barista idea.