q – question

A bereaved dad friend told me that when he asked, Why?! His answer became…There is no why.

I’m not sure who it was that said that when they asked Why, they turned it in to…What now? I’m pretty sure that was Dr. Joanne Cacciatore, one of my grief heroes.

There is no why.

What now?

These have helped some with those repeated, often terrible, resounding, and unanswerable questions.

Disclaimer – this post has nothing to do with my theme of grad school and everything to do with what I could think of to write about for q.